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Dog owners know their pets are adorable. It’s no surprise that well meaning strangers sometimes want to engage with your pup. But your dog may not always be in the mood for socializing, and that’s perfectly okay! Here’s how to politely advocate for your pup:

1. Be Direct But Kind
A simple “Thanks, but he’s not comfortable with strangers today” or “She’s in training right now” usually does the trick. Be straightforward without feeling the need to explain yourself.

2. Use Body Language
Position yourself between your dog and the approaching person. Gently turn your body away to create a visual barrier. This sends a clear, non-confrontational signal.

3. Equip Yourself
If direct communication isn’t your jam, consider a “DO NOT PET” leash, leash wrap (like this one!), harness, or vest. These clearly convey your dog needs space. We even make gear for handlers to get your message across!

4. Teach Kids the ‘Ask First’ Rule
It’s a great opportunity to teach children to always ask before approaching a dog. Explain to them that some dogs might be shy or even scared of new people.

5. Redirect Attention
If someone persists, try, “He’s really focused on getting to the park right now!” or “We’re working on something important.” This redirects the conversation away from your dog.

6. Prioritize Your Dog’s Needs
Your dog relies on you! Prioritize their safety and comfort over social etiquette. It’s your job to be their voice.

Important Note: Some dogs may be training for specific jobs or have rehabilitation needs. Approaching them can have serious consequences. If in doubt, admire from afar!