Gatekeeping With Open Arms: Why Honesty Matters More Than Hype

There’s a common perception that dog breed communities are rife with gatekeeping, discouraging potential owners from joining their furry fandom (and it’s true!). While much of this gatekeeping stems from elitism, there are times when it’s rooted in genuine concern and transparency. Let’s delve into the complex world of breed gatekeeping and explore where the line between helpful honesty and snobby exclusion lies.

Oftentimes, gatekeeping in dog communities fosters a sense of exclusivity that discourages potential owners from even trying to get involved. You have no idea how many people I’ve watched try to “do it right” and then get chewed up and spit out by the community, leading them to those with poor breeding practices or other breeds or mixes (often less ethically bred as well). This can be particularly harmful for breeds in need of responsible homes. By making it seem like only a select few can handle a particular breed, responsible breeders may lose out on fantastic pet parents. The truth is, most breeds can be handled by most people.

Moreover, gatekeeping can lead to misinformation. Discouraged individuals may turn to unreliable sources for information (either for or against), potentially landing them a dog they’re ill equipped to handle that will destroy their home or their neighbors.

There’s a place for honest conversations about dog breeds. Not all breeds are created equal. Some breeds have intense exercise needs, while others possess strong guarding instincts or high prey drives.  Sugarcoating these realities can do a disservice to both the dog and the potential owner. It can also put lives at risk.

Responsible breed enthusiasts should strive for transparency.  They should educate potential owners about the breed’s history, temperament, and exercise requirements. This allows individuals to make informed decisions about whether a particular breed aligns with their lifestyle. We need to be meeting every potential home with open arms, yes, but also with a few buckets of honesty and realism.

Breeders have a significant responsibility in ensuring their dogs end up in the right homes.  They should screen potential owners and ensure they understand the commitment involved in owning a specific breed.  This doesn’t mean turning away every applicant – it means finding the right fit for both the dog and the owner. Unfortunately, comparatively few breeders are willing to educate or turn away homes just because they’re not a good fit for the breed. The ethical ones are, but they’re a percentage of the overall community. Generally, if someone is set on a breed, they can find someone to sell one to them, ethical or not.

Gatekeeping in dog communities can be a double edged sword. While it can often stem from elitism, it can also be a form of responsible breed stewardship. The key lies in striking a balance between fostering a welcoming community and ensuring potential dog owners are equipped to handle the breed they choose. By prioritizing honest communication and responsible breeding practices, we can ensure that dogs end up in loving, forever homes.

An experienced trainer with a focus on puppy development and service dogs, now learning about things outside her scope

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