Dog Socialization: Beyond Making Friends – Building Confidence and Manners

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Dog socialization is often misunderstood as simply making your pup pals every other dog and person it sees. While greetings are part of it, it’s much more about helping your dog comfortably navigate the world around them. It’s about building confidence, reducing fear, and teaching appropriate manners.


Here’s a breakdown of what socialization is and what it isn’t.


What socialization is:


Exposure to different people, animals, places, and things: This includes people of all ages, genders, and ethnicities, as well as animals, loud noises, traffic, and different environments like parks, stores, and vet clinics. Anywhere your puppy may need to be as an adult, it should experience a fair amount as a puppy.


Positive associations: Ideally, every interaction should be rewarding and positive for your dog. Use things like treats, praise, and toys to help create a confident, social dog.


Respectful interactions: Teach your dog polite greetings, how to handle being pet in a variety of ways, and how to appropriately interact with other dogs.

Grooming: Get your dog used to being groomed, having it’s mouth checked and brushed, having it’s nails done, etc.


What socialization is not:


Forcing interactions: Don’t push your dog into overly uncomfortable situations. Let them approach new things at their own pace with encouragement. Slow introductions are best.

Constant meet and greets: your dog doesn’t need to meet everyone and should also be trained to NOT greet people and dogs whenever it sees them, until given permission to do so.

Dog parks: While dog parks can seem great for socialization, most have a higher rate of failure than success. Focus on controlled introductions and one-on-one interactions. The dog park is more useful for training outside of to work on distractions. One ill mannered dog can ruin yours.

A one-time event: This isn’t one and done, it is an ongoing process throughout your dog’s life. Keep exposing them to new experiences and practicing good manners. While the socialization period does close fairly early on in life, maintaining their public training it vital.


By following these tips, you can help your dog become a confident, well-adjusted canine citizen who enjoys interacting with the world around them.

An experienced trainer with a focus on puppy development and service dogs, now learning about things outside her scope

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